1. Are you sure about this? Um well yes I was until you just mentioned that – why would you say that – oh my, am I making a mistake. Thoughts not needed when your marrying the man you L.O.V.E
2. I thought you went on a diet? Uh really!!!!!!
3. Ooooooh everyone will be looking just at you The girls nervous enough as it is – no need to give her heart palpitations
4. Why didn’t I get a plus one? Are you for real? Keep those thoughts to yourself, unless you want an awkward situation.
5. Your dress looks so much like (Insert name in here) wedding dress – she look beautiful. This may sound like a compliment in your head, but you’ve just told the bride that her dress isn’t a one off – and depending on stress levels – that she’s copied someones else’s wedding.
6. So how much did all this cost? Just don’t go there
7. No one will notice all the details anyway – so don’t worry about it being perfect In the brides eyes everything MUST be perfect. The sweet table arranged the way you envisaged – someone better notice that they are organised in the colours of the rainbow.
8. Do you mind if my new boyfriend comes to the reception tonight? I’m sorry is it a Friday night at your local? No – probably not a great question to ask.
9. Don’t be a Bridezilla Nothing will make a very stressed/ nervous bride Hulk out on you more than telling her not to be a Bridezilla because her hair isn’t perfect or that there are too many people in the room getting ready. Avoid at all costs.
